Where To Find BBW Hookups: Casual Sex with Larger Ladies

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Looking for sexy fun with larger ladies? Wondering where to find BBW hookups near you?

If you are an admirer of BBWs and are looking for a quick way to arrange hook-ups online, the good news is that there are a variety of BBW hookup sites – ranging from dating apps, to sites that explicitly invite you to ‘find and fuck BBWs’ (disclaimer: it’s not that easy, guys!) From plus-size and cute chubby girls to super plus size SSBBWs, there is an abundance of BBW-friendly apps and sites where you can meet ladies with more to love…

Of course, you can cut to the chase by joining a site like Adult Friend Finder and simply setting your search criteria to larger ladies. AFF is the world’s largest hookup site, and for our money it has the largest selection of BBW profiles even though it’s not marketed at them.

In this BBW hookups guide, we take a comprehensive look at where you can go to connect with larger ladies.

From the best sites offering casual encounters with BBWs, to some more vanilla dating apps that focus on romance rather than casual sex.

Let’s see what we can find!

What is a BBW?

Where have you been hiding?!

Seriously, the acronym BBW stands for Big Beautiful Woman and, in common parlance, refers to all those curvy ladies out there that sport a larger than average physique; yes, it’s slang for chubby, plump and plus-size women.

The phrase is often confused as being strictly for Big Breasted Woman but this does not have to be the case – although often is by virtue of their extra poundage. 😉

What Are The Best Sites For BBW Hookups?

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It’s worth remembering that, unlike casual dating sites like Adult Friend Finder or ALT, these BBW hookup sites all have women who WANT to be marketed as BBWs.

With other sites, you may well find some women who are plus size (if they haven’t lied on their profile) but they might not be as comfortable with being labelled and admired in this niche.

By all means, try your luck on general casual hookup sites and premium fuck buddy platforms but these sites all offer genuine BBWs actively looking for a connection.

To save time repeating ourselves on all of these reviews, it is also worth mentioning that a lot of ‘freemium’ dating websites will give you a free account with limited functionality. Often you will receive notifications that you have a message but you won’t be able to access this until you upgrade your membership.

Sadly, some (indeed, many) of these sites employ the questionable tactics of falsely generating these messages themselves in order to boost their sign-up rates. That being said, there are genuine BBW users on these sites, you just need to be prepared for a few false leads.

Yes, all of these sites offer free membership yet don’t actually give you access to the features you need in order to get the most of their site. This is all offered on a premium subscription basis.

Most of these sites charge around $20-$30 per month – which is, however you look at it, far cheaper than spending ten times this amount on an escort for guaranteed sex or forking out a ton of cash on a date that may or may not be interested in casual sex at the end of it.

We’ve tried to indicate in our reviews just how well used each site and how successful other users have found them to arrange a casual BBW hookup.

BB People Meet

www.bbpeoplemeet.com

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BB People Meet is a sub-domain of the immensely popular dating site, People Meet. The site has a network of niche portals that capture traffic for sub-genres of the casual hookup market with BB People Meet being one for the Big and Beautiful category.

That being said, statistical traffic data suggests that this site is very well-visited and the domain receives well over 1.3 million hits each month. Most of these visitors come from the USA or Canada with a small volume of people hitting the site from El Salvador, the United Kingdom and other parts of Europe.

There’s a real mix of women on here with some looking for friendship, some looking for love or a serious relationship but plenty who will be more than happy to take you up on the offer of a casual encounter. It’s also a site which caters for the larger man as well.

Membership is free but upgrading to access the features will set you back $14.99 per month or 35.76 for six months. Included within your subscription is mobile access.

BBW Admire

www.bbwadmire.com

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More of an actual dating site than a hookup opportunity, BBW Admire is a good place for admirers of larger ladies to connect and network. As there isn’t always a meeting involved, the site is a little more international than most and of the 100,000-150,000 monthly visitors to the site only half of these are in the United States. BBW admire is also popular in Europe (particularly the Netherlands and Denmark) as well as in Australia.

BBW Datefinder

www.bbwdatefinder.com

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Principally offering a place for fat admirers to find chubby girls looking for love or a friendship, there aren’t any opportunities for a hookup on this site but there are definitely some profiles which promise some casual dating.

BBW Desire

www.bbwdesire.com

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The design of this site is very similar to Selfie BBWs (see below) and it is not clear if they share the same base-platform and if this is a white-label job. They certainly use the same catchphrases on their landing site and share incredible similarities. However, you do need different log-in details and they have a different traffic profile for their members.

Popular in the United States with around 660,000 users each month, BBW Desire is also getting attention in Brazil, China, Argentina and Canada.

They purport to have over 2.5 million members looking for a connection (s’funny, that’s the same as well?!).

Subscription charges apply to get access to premium features such as cell phone texting, personalized matchmaking and unlimited profiles are also exactly the same as Selfie BBWs…..hmmm?

BBW Friends Date

http://bbwfriendsdate.com

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A 100% free BBW dating site aimed at friendships and singles dating, the emphasis on the advertising for this site looks like it is for those looking for love and serious relationships only.

Mobile friendly and with plenty of features normally reserved for paying members, the site does have some nice user figures which suggest good coverage. It is also popular in North America, Australia and the United Kingdom.

One to dip into to see what kind of coverage it offers in your area and with nothing to lose, its got to be a no-brainer.

BBW Hookup

www.bbwhookup.org

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Big in Latvia apparently, this hookup site for BBWs has a very varied user base across both Europe and North America as well as in parts of Asia.

There are also relatively few visitors to the site compared to some other sites on this list with current traffic reports indicating that fewer than 65,000 people hit the site each month. With such a large international spread, it is unlikely that the site can offer local hook-ups…unless you are in Latvia?

Maybe try browsing for profiles in your area before committing to a subscription.

BBW Sluts

www.bbw-sluts.com

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Powered by Hubstars dating (the provider behind niche sites like Cougar Sluts, Fetish Sluts, Trans Sluts and Real Sluts), BBW Sluts is a genuine casual dating site.

There is no pretense here about what anyone is looking for and you can dispense with the niceties and get straight down to the flirting.

The site is pretty new although traffic figures have leapt since it was launched at the end of 2018 and is already reaching an audience of over 80,000 people.  All of these, so far, are based in the United States.

BBW Sluts aims to a straight-up hookup site and guarantees that there will be no fake profile tactics on its site to encourage signup. This makes a refreshing change and we have already had some good feedback that the site is working.

Obviously with a smaller pond to fish in, it’s not clear whether the coverage across the U.S. is comprehensive or localized. It’s worth signing up on a free membership to see how many profiles are based near where you live.

The site is online dating ‘Guardian Protected’ which should go some way to keeping the site safe from the usual complaints of scammers.

VIP features include priority message delivery and search results listing, access to all chat rooms as well as all photos and videos plus unlimited contact with free members.

Current charges are as follows:

  • One month for $35.96
  • Three months for $85.44
  • Twelve months for $206.88

Chubby Bunnie

www.chubbybunnie.com

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Chubby Bunnie is an online community and dating site that offers support as well as networking for plus size ladies. The site is geared more towards friendship but they do have a large personal ads section (over 1,000,000 big people looking for love, dating, friendship and more).

It’s a useful site for fat admirers and the forums are pretty handy for dating advice and tips on how to treat big girls.

The site is powered by Large Friends (see below) so check out that listing for details of subscription fees.

Curvy – The BBW Tinder

www.bbwtinder.com

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For those fat admirers who like the convenience of dating on the move then BBW Tinder is perfect. This app is based wholly on the ubiquitous swipe left/swipe right casual dating app after which it has been named but focuses only on curvy ladies.

Its simple enough and already has a good user base in both the U.S. as well as in Europe with more than 2,200 reviews (Android) and 210 reviews (Apple).

As with Tinder, the app is more geared towards the casual encounter and hookup than serious dating but there is a mix of women using it so you do have to be a little discerning before arranging any meet-ups.

The app is available to download for free on your smartphone on both the App Store and Google Play.

VIP upgrades will give you access to more features including the ability to contact more people with current charges being:

  • Plan 1: $15.99
  • Plan 2: $29.99
  • Plan 3: 49.99

Curvy BBW

www.curvybbw.com

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Another site which is powered by the same engines as BBW Desire and Selfie BBWs, this is just another front-end landing page (or white labelled site) for the same service. See either of these reviews for details.

Find BBW

www.findbbw.com

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It looks as though this BBW dating site (well, at least the front end to it) is more popular in the UK than in other countries but there is limited data available so we’ll stand to be corrected on this. At least the site isn’t boasting millions of members and simply states that they have 33,675 (as of March 2019) registered users.

The problem is that when you sign up for a free account, you are redirected to the WellHello website. This might not be a bad thing as the platform is very popular and has over 23 million monthly users from around the world; a good third of these come from the United States.

You can certainly use WellHello to find BBWs but you just need to use the regular search filters to do so. Plus, as a very popular site, there are a huge number of cam girls who are fishing for an audience so you will be inundated by messages regardless.

The free trial for Well Hello costs just a dollar and gives you 24-hours to review the services before you commit to a subscription. Otherwise monthly charges are $29.95 or you can sign up for a full year at a cost of $119.88

A bit of false (or misleading at any rate) advertising from Find BBW but not a bad site behind the curtains to give you a much improved chance of finding a casual date with a larger lady. They may just not be aware they are being marketed this way!

Hot BBW Dating

www.hotbbwdating.com

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Powered by the same engine as BBW Sluts, Hot BBW Dating is simply another landing domain for the same service. See the entry for BBW Sluts above for details.

Hookup BBW

www.hookupbbw.com

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At least this site includes a disclaimer on the sign up pages that confirms they use bots to encourage participation on the site. Known as ‘Online Cupids’ these automated messages are fake profiles that the site uses to draw users in to upgrading their membership. For shame! It’s not big and it’s not necessary given there are quite a lot of genuine users on the site.

Popular in the U.S. and African nations as well as in Canada, Hookup BBW is reaching an audience in excess of 120,000 people. Okay, it’s not massive by the standards of sites like Adult Friend Finder but this is a pretty good reach for a niche hookup site.

The site has a very easy registration process and you can get to the profile browsing stage within a few minutes once you have confirmed your email.

Once on the site, it’s easy to navigate around the profiles and the site has a pretty slick feel.

Upgrading your membership offers unlimited messaging and profile views and costs:

  • $1.95 for a three-day trial
  • $29.95 for one month
  • $49.95 for three months
  • $69.90 for six months

The site also offers a live cam service for members as well as video chat, 1-to-1 messaging and access to a range of adult games.

Despite the use of bots, at least there is some transparency on the site and definitely one that might be worth a free-trial before committing to longer membership, if just to check out the added site bonuses and see what coverage they have in your area.

Just BBWs

https://justbbws.com/

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Just BBWs reports to have over 6 million members and with verified members who are looking for sex, that’s a lot of big beautiful women who want to get laid. However, traffic to the site from independent sources just don’t back this claim up.

The sign up for the site is pretty spammy and reminded us of the tactics used by Badoo to capture sign ups plus you have to enter your credit card information in order to qualify for the ‘limited’ number of free accounts in your area.

This includes an opt-out registration for two sites, MaxHDPorn and Exclusive Adult Videos. The combined charge for this (if you don’t cancel them with 7 and 10 days respectively) is $99.48! You can bypass this authentication process and get straight into browsing the site; however, if you don’t verify your account to ‘free’ VIP status then you can’t access the premium features.

Obviously, we got an instant message and a few emails within minutes of opening our account but with far too many alarm bells ringing for us we abandoned our trial of this site.

Large Friends

www.largefriends.com

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A site mainly focused on BBW singles who are looking for love, friendship and serious dating, Large Friends reports to have 1.5 million members (both BBWs and Big Handsome Men (BHM)).

The site is popular in North America, Australia and Western Europe so should have a good reach in these areas but do check profiles in your locality. The platform is powered by the same engine as Successful Match which is a larger site offering similar coverage.

Sign up is pretty straight forward but does include a security check using mobile verification which is reassuring and should go some way to weeding out fakes and scammers on the site.

The site also has an app which members can use on their smartphone or tablet device which is available to download for free on Android and iOS.

Upgrading your account should improve your chances of getting a date by up to 500% with profiles of paid members receiving 20+ times more views and interactions.

The cost to subscribe is:

  • $29.95 per month
  • $59.95 for three months
  • $95.95 for six months

Local BBW Hookup

www.localbbwhookup.com

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Yes, another site powered by the ever-popular engine behind both BBW Desire and Selfie BBWs, this ‘local’ hookup site for larger ladies does have good coverage but is exactly the same service.

Loving BBW

www.lovingbbw.com

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Part of the World Singles Network, Loving BBW is a niche sub-site for this global dating engine. The site is predominantly aimed at large women who are looking for love, serious relationships and friendship but there are definitely some profiles on here that scream casual hookup.

The network has been operating successfully for 15+ years and there is some comfort in knowing the site appeals to genuine members.

Real BBW Dating

www.real-bbwdating.com

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Reportedly having over four million members, Real BBW Dating is another site powered by the same platform as BBW Sluts and Hot BBW Dating (see above).

Selfie BBWs

www.selfiebbws.com

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A self-promoted dating site aimed at men looking for casual sex with ‘all natural, big beautiful women’, Selfie BBWs gets quite a bit of traffic. Around 750,000 visitors hit the site each month, the vast majority of these being from the USA. However, the site is also popular in the UK, Canada, Australia and Spain.

Sign up is quick and easy and you should be browsing profiles within a few minutes of activating your email sign-up.

The site was voted ‘Best in Class for 2018’ as a niche hookup site and has plenty of features to offer.

There are new members signing up daily and premium members can use the search service to match-make, enable cell-phone texting and store photos sent from interested BBWs.

You can get a three-day trial of the service for $8.90 but the price to upgrade to a premium membership is:

  • $29.95 per month
  • $49.95 for three months
  • $69.90 for six months

From feedback we have seen, we’d give Selfie BBWs a thumbs up for authenticity and the trial makes it even easier to see what you are getting before committing to a big expenditure.

Sugar BBW

www.sugarbbw.com

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The site where ‘curves are worshiped’, Sugar BBW attracts a monthly audience in the range of 150,000 to 200,000 people. Nine in ten visitors are from the USA where the site is really only operational. However, there are some Canadian visitors as well as the odd European and African nation.

In the U.S., the site is popular in Texas, Florida, Georgia, Ohio and California and there is good evidence to suggest that there are high rates of hookup success using the site, particularly in these areas.

It’s an easy site to sign up for and gives you lots of opportunities to flirt with some large ladies before hitting them up for a casual encounter.

As ever, you have to pay to get to the good stuff and membership to Sugar BBW currently costs:

  • $25.49 for one month
  • $42.87 for three months
  • $69.29 for six months

However, you can access the main features of the site on a three-day trial for $2.97.

Other Casual Dating Sites

Since the closure of Backpage in April 2018, and the subsequent withdrawal of personals ads from sites like Craigslist, the search for free casual encounters has been marginalised a little.

However, there are still a number of ways that you can find BBW hookups without having to pay premium membership fees. Our best suggestions for success with the BBWs being these sites:

And, finally, don’t forget that we have curated one of the best lists of BBW porn sites around so don’t forget to check it out for your next fix. 😉

How Popular Are BBWs?

BBWs are a popular niche turn-on for men and the adult content hosting giants, Pornhub, have recently compiled a report on just who searches for BBW on their site.

Research reveals that:

  • Men are 21% more likely to be searching for BBW porn than women.
  • BBWs are more popular in the 35-44 year old age range and least popular in the 18-24 year olds and over 65s.
  • Proportionately, it is the African nations that search more for BBW content than anywhere else in the world with Nigeria, Ghana, Kenya and Egypt taking the top fours spots respectively. The United States is 10th, the United Kingdom 12th and Canada 20th

Interestingly BBWs are far more popular in the east of the United States than in the West. Hawaiians are the least interested of all the states in America along with image conscious Californians and folk from Utah and Colorado. By contrast, the search term is more commonly used in West Virginia, Louisiana, Kentucky, Tennessee and North Carolina.

With dedicated niche BBW porn sites like Plumper Pass attracting monthly viewing figures of over 2 million people there is definitely a market for BBW porn. Perhaps in an industry that is saturated with ‘perfect’ bodies and ‘skinny’ porn stars, the BBW offers, not only diversity, but attainability?

So, if you are looking to hook up with your very own BBW then have we get the ultimate guide for you…

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Paul Cassidy

Paul has been a regular contributor on RLN since 2017. His work -- which he describes as his "professional dirty pleasure"! -- has been published on several adult industry blogs, including Red Light Australia, Euro Sex Scene, Asia Sex Scene. A native of the UK, Paul is currently based in Chiang Mai, Thailand.
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